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          Bach Flower Remedies
              for Children
           
          by Barbara Mazzarella
         
 
         Reviewed by Cheri Kussavage
         
 
         Barbara
              Mazzarella’s conviction that joy is the birthright of every
              living child is idealized in her book,
         
          Bach
              Flower Remedies for Children
         
         . The entire focus of this
              book is on the treatment of children using the vibrational healing
              abilities of Bach flower remedies. The author has a strong belief
              in administering flower essences at an early age to create balance
              and harmony in a child, which ultimately ends with a happier adult.
         
         Mazzarella has extensive experiential knowledge
              on the subject of flower essences and their application to the
              treatment of children. She has worked for more than twenty years
              in nursery and elementary schools of Milan, Italy and encourages
              the reader to administer flower essences to children with their
              own faith and intuition. No harm can come from administering the
              wrong remedy.
         
         Mazarella’s book provides descriptions of
              remedies and typologies of behavior, advice and suggestions, games,
              guided meditations, stories and affirmations.
         
         This book also addresses each of the 38 Bach flower
              remedies in alphabetical order, beginning with a short behavior
              typology. The typology provided for WALNUT is as follows: “I’m
              moving to a new house and changing schools, too. I’m not
              a little kid anymore; I’m turning into a young adult. All
              this change is so hard!” What follows is detailed examples
              of behavior and emotional issues that the flowers address. The
              author adds advice and suggestions, as well as a short children’s
              story that could be read as a bedtime story to help ease the child’s
              distress. Each chapter ends with an affirmation to provide nourishment
              for both parent and child.
         
 
         Continuing
              with the above example, the author explains that the WALNUT child
              has a difficult time with transitions because of ambivalence and
              allowing others to convince them to let go of what they really
              want to do. Walnut is a helpful remedy to administer in the first
              days of school attendance or when a child is teething. There are
              many other circumstances in which one may use Walnut that are listed
              as well. The author adds that Walnut “is a protective agent
              in that it can form a sort of shield that reinforces the aura and
              repels negative energies.”
          
 
         The short story for Walnut flower essence is entitled: “Richard
              and the Magic Scissors”. In this story, Richard is dissuaded
              by his mother from leaving on a life adventure to explore the world,
              but urged to stay near home. On one short venture close to home,
              he is captured by a wizard who ties him up with invisible cords
              to hold him in his powers. Then forced to work for the wizard,
              Richard could go no further than the wizard’s garden. He
              kept hope alive in his heart, but lost his sense of security and
              the cords were quite tiresome. Eventually, the story ends happily
              with the King of Fairies releasing Richard by cutting the wizard’s
              cords with magic scissors, allowing Richard to repay the fairies
              by trekking on a glorious adventure, as promised them, in search
              of the fairies’ purple stone.
         
         Word of advice is given by the author to not directly
              place the child’s name or exact appearance in the story.
              The stories are metaphors only, and not meant to be critical or
              fault-finding for the sensitive child. The stories will need ad-libbing
              for a younger child of pre-school age, and are more likely geared
              towards children 8 – 10 years of age.
         
         The affirmations that close each flower chapter
              are well phrased and direct. The Walnut chapter ends with the following
              affirmation:
         
          “I free myself from all negative influence.
              I follow my inner guide. I am ready for change. I allow the fulfillment
              of my potential.”
         
 
         Three examples of guided meditation or visualization
              are provided in the last section of the book. These are guidelines
              that can be used with a group of children or individuals to help
              them relax, strengthen their energy or auras, and to create a “magic
              room,” where anything is possible and healing, and where
              joy and love abound. The child in you may want to follow along
              with these exercises to receive their beneficial affects.
         
         The Quick-Reference Table of Remedies in the back
              of the book is useful for parents when first trying to narrow down
              the flowers that should be used for their child’s condition.
              For the Disturbance/Issue of “Bedwetting”, for example,
              four Causes/Conditions are listed along with the corresponding
              flower remedy. Bedwetting, “Due to daytime tension and withholding
              followed by nighttime loosening” – Cherry Plum is selected. “Due
              to severe anxiety masked by apparent serenity” – Agrimony
              is listed. “Due to regression or trauma” – Star
              of Bethlehem is indicated. “Due to birth of a sibling” – Holly
              is suggested as the choice. This Reference Table provides over
              sixty different disturbances or issues, and is very complete from
              the aspect of most children’s troubles.
         
         This practical working manual, written for the
              lay person, is highly recommended for parents, grandparents, and
              any caretaker of children. It’s easy to recognize the child
              reflected in each flower chapter. This book would make a wonderful
              baby shower gift, along with a bottle of Five-Flower Formula. Barbara
              Mazzarella is right; each child should be happy, so why not explore
              using flower essences as a way to bring harmony and balance into
              a child’s life?
         
 
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